2 days left!! Yay!!

Oakley is ALMOST done!  This will be such a relief when we are done with this whole thing.  However, I just pray that this will have made a difference for him; it has to have done something to help him.  I still can't see him as having a deadly form of cancer.  Especially now that all of his symptoms are gone and he's still just his normal self, although a bit worn out during the week from the treatments.  No significant changes, either.  I'm still waiting for the negative side effects that we were told would happen?  It makes me a bit worried they really are doing nothing but taking our money.  Yes, that would be fraud and yes, they would be in BIG trouble if they did this.  I guess I am just being cynical and annoyed by what they can get away with as far as charging for services and medications.

I do know that they are taking such good care of him.  There is woman there named Kim who just adores Oakley and I think she's the one that for the most parts takes care of him; feeds him lunch if he wants, takes him out for his potty breaks and so forth, and gives him lots of attention.  She has told us how much she enjoys Oakley being there.  I do have a funny story about today.  This morning I woke up at 4:30am to a VERY bad smell in the house.  I thought for sure Oakley or Maya had an accident, and I was not going to be happy if I had to clean something up at that ridiculous hour, half asleep.  I ran around the house looking for where the dogs might have pooped, but couldn't find evidence.  The whole upstairs literally reeked - it was bad.  Turns out that Oakley just had REALLY bad gas.  I mean, it stuck around for like 2 hours - that bad.  I took him out 3 times before John drove him to the U for his treatment, but he just would not go.  He also did not go when John got to the U.  John picked him up this afternoon and Kim said to him, "Yeah, I was walking Oakley to his therapy session and all of a sudden he started to squat and next thing I know, he crapped all over my shoes!!"  She said that is why she doesn't wear socks to work and wears those plastic Crocs - easy to clean!  LOL!!!  Thankfully, she wasn't the least bit annoyed and laughed about it herself - I'm sure accidents like that do happen from time to time.  When she handed Oakley over to my husband, she knelt down next to him and said "Oakley, will you sing for me?"  And Oakley did his whiny howl thing he does and then gave her a big 'ole kiss on the face!   That's my Oakley - loves giving kisses!!  :)  Then she gave him a big hug back.  So, I know that he is defintely cared for.  I really like Kim - she is so great with him and I'm glad to know he has someone like that taking care of him while he goes through something like this.

Just took this picture of him this evening:

He looks pretty good - and actually happy! :)

Have a good night!

Weekend Update -

Oakley is going to be starting his FINAL week of therapy!  Yay!  I am so glad we are almost done with this.  However, I wish we could know right away how much this will have helped him.  This weeked he was really great!  Energetic, playful, just his usual self pre-treatment.  Still no side effects that I can see.  I hope it stays that way, but I just don't know what's going to happen.  I don't really have any additional news to report.  Only 5 more days!!

Treatment #13 -

Oakley is almost done with week 3!!  Time is moving much faster than I thought it would, which I am thankful for.  We are definitely looking forward to the weekend though.  Oakley is doing really good again today, overall.  He's still eating really good, still wanting to go for walks, etc.  I have noticed, however, that when they don't do his treatments until the afternoon, it takes a bigger toll on him as far as his energy level.  When he gets his treatment first thing in the morning, he's much more energetic and upbeat.  I hope they can do the remainder of his sessions in the morning. 

I found out that the radiation therapy is not what is causing him to lose his hair across his nose.  It turns out that they are shaving those lines.  Again, they could have just told us that.  I also got his recent bloodwork results and everything is within normal range and the best part is that his white blood cell count is down to 7.9!!  That is down from 33.0 when this all started!!  The Piroxcam is what really brought it down though initially because when they did his first bloodwork before radiation began, his WBC was down to 13.  I am just so happy that everything is back within normal ranges.  I'm hoping this is a good sign that we are making some good progress against this tumor.

Here is a pic of Oakley from today:

Still looking good!  :)

 

Start of the 3rd week of treatment

First off, Oakley had a wonderful weekend.  He was very energetic, playful, and overall a happy dog.  It was so nice to see that! :)  He was really happy with the new beds, too!  Here are some pics of him sleeping - he was out like a light.  He looks pretty dang comfy!

This is the bed I put in our bedroom next to my side.  A nice thick mattress type bed.

Here is the nice big, soft pillow I got for the living room.

Here's another cute pic of him after he switched positions. 

Now for today - Oakley completed his first treatment of his 3rd week.  The nurse/tech (I am not sure what they call themselves) said that he did really good today, and even ate lunch.  I kind of wish they wouldn't feed him.  They feed him Science Diet and I personally don't want my dog eating that particular brand.  I suppose I could tell them not to feed him, but if he's hungry, I don't know, I don't want to deny him any food.  Besides not really liking that brand of food, I don't want him not to eat when he gets home either.  He really ever only eats once per day.  I now know why he isn't really finishing all his dinner in the evening.  I think I will need to ask them how much they are giving him.  I sent him in today with a harness and a good sturdy lease.  MUCH better getting him to and from his treatment and not having him pull so hard that he chokes himself and causes a bloody nose when wearing the collared leash.  I think the harness was definitely a good idea and I instructed the techs NOT to ever use they cheap disposable leashes on him going forward.

Tonight Oakley is SUPER tired.  I was going to take the dogs out for a walk, but I decided against it.  He is basically just nodding off whereve he lays down, or even stands, for that matter.  It's cute because he'll nod off and then jerk his head up trying his hardest to stay awake.  I wish he would just conk out though and get some sleep.  I think once we head off to bed he'll crash pretty hard.  Hopefully he will be rested for tomorrow.  Thankfully, John is taking him for treatment tomorrow, so I can sleep in an extra hour or so...yippee!  :)

So far, Oakley hasn't had any serious side effects yet that I can tell.  I am wondering if he is in any discomfort or anything.  He makes it hard to tell.  I don't see any sores, or other skin issues, or burns in his mouth or anything like that, or anything wrong with his eye.  I'm wondering if something will crop up this week.  It does worry me since I don't know what to expect and I know we just can't escape the side effects...so, just waiting for them to start appearing is very nerve-wracking.  Here is a snapshot of Oakley I just took this evening:

The horizontal lines across his nose are getting more prominent, and his hair is thinning or gone altogether.  I guess this could be considered a side effect?  I'm not really sure.

Well, take care all!  More updates to come!!  Good night!

Week #2 Complete!

Oakley finished up his second week of treatment!  Yay! :)  He is doing very well so far.  They think perhaps his nose bleed was caused by him pulling so tightly on his leash; he practically chokes himself.  I can see the logic in that, especially with what is going on inside his nasal cavity.  He had just a few light drops today as well - I noticed them when I got him in the car, but nothing to where his tongue was covered in blood (very scary sight).  It stopped almost immediately, so I'm thinking perhaps it could be his over excitement and pulling.  I am going to be bringing him in going forward in a harness.  They said that would probably be a good idea since he is so spastic when it's time to go home; plus they'll get a little bit more control over him. 

I don't have a picture to post tonight...not a whole lot has changed though.  I'm thinking we may see more side effects going into week three, but honestly, if it stays like this, I would be so, so happy.  I just am not getting my hopes up though.  I still plan on taking them out for a walk this evening.  We didn't go last night - I was just too tired.  I feel guilty about it...I'm really grateful to John throughout this so far.  He's been bringing him in every morning and has picked him up the majority of the time.  Thanks, John!  I really do appreciate it and I love you!  :)

Treatment #8

Overall, Oakley is doing really well so far.  However, the nurse told John that today Oakley had a nose bleed right before he picked him up today.  She wasn't sure if he hit his nose or what.  She is going to notify the doctor about it and she what she has to say.  This will be Oakley's first nosebleed in a little over 3 weeks.  Seems odd that he would get one now if related to the tumor.  I'm a little worried as to what that might mean.  We'll see what the doctor says.  Otherwise, all the nurses just love him and he's being a really good boy when he is there.  He's eating great and wants to continue to go for walks.  He does get a bit fatigued, but overall he does seem in good spirits.  Perhaps getting into a routine is helping him calm down.  He continues to get better with his car rides, too. 

John did have a conversation with Dr. Cannon on Wednesday and got clarification on everything that is going on.  He's still pissed about it all, but there really isn't much he can do about it.  The doctor apologized - I mean that is all she could really do.  We will continue with treatment as planned.  She said that once treatment is if finished, they would like to do another CT scan in 2-3 months to see how the radiation affected the tumor.  Of course, this is more money out of our pocket so we will have to decide whether or not we are going to spend the additional money to get another scan done.  It would be interesting to find out how successful we are at killing the tumor though.  Either way, once we are done Oakley just continues on normally with really no more vet appointments to treat or monitor the cancer.  However, she said that if/when the symptoms return, there really is nothing more they can do.  The radiation treatment can only be done the one time - but I would not put him through it again anyway.  At that time, I will just try to make sure he is as comfortable as possible and will wait for him to tell us when he is ready to go, which will be such a heart-wrenching moment in my life.  I just that this treatment is going to give us that extra time with him that we are so hoping for.

Can't wait for the weekend - we can all relax again for another 2 days!!

Treatment Day #6 and overall update

I'm a little behind, I see.  It's easy to get caught up with other things and then decide to go to bed instead of updating your blog.  :)  Today was Oakley's 6th treatment.  He looks great as is acting normal, like he has been I guess.  Still whiny though, but that's Oakley. 

Today I got some interesting info though from the Oncologist's assistant or whoever she was.  I had put in a request to find out the results of Oakley's biopsy on his lymphnodes because they hadn't gotten back to me.  It turns out that everything is okay; the cancer has not spread.  However, I then find out from her that the extra "node" they are using the radiation therapy on is his actual lymph node!!  I thought that "node" in this case meant "area".  The office girl I talked to last week, when we were questioning the cost of the therapy, indicated that the "node" was the area above the right eye, or that is at least how I took it.  So, since starting, he has been getting his nasal/eye area treated and also underneath his right chin where the lymph node is.  Now, I think I remember asking her why this needed to be done if there was no cancer, but to be honest, I don't have a clue what she said.  I was so surprised that I just didn't register the info.  She apologized that no one had called us to explain what was going on and thought someone would have explained all this to us...hmm, they are going to leave this type of info to an office assistant to relay (which obviously she got wrong to begin with or couldn't relay it correctly)?  

My husband is quite angry about this whole situation for several reasons:

1.)  They never explained exactly what areas they were going to treat once the radiologist came up with their plan of action; no one mentioned anything about treating the lymphnode just as a precaution.  We were basically not given a choice as to whether we wanted to include the lymphnode in the treatment. Apparently, they just made the decision to do it "just in case". Of course, I probably would have been for it because I want to do whatever I can for Oakley. But, my husband is upset that we didn't hear about any of this upfront before treatment began; they did not present it to us an additional course of action.

2.)  They originally misquoted us and didn't explain in detail every line item on the estimate (although, I blame myself somewhat for not asking someone to clarify the estimate line items).
 
3.)  They failed to call us 2 days in a row to tell us that Oakley was ready to be picked up and to give us a general summary of how Oakley did each day.

4.)  They also failed to explain that Oakley will need to receive 2 treatments in 1 day for his last treatment, so that his 20th dose can end on a Friday.  Apparently, they always end a full course on a Friday.  We thought them starting us on a Tuesday was odd because to get his 20th dose, he would have to go back in after a weekend of rest to finish on a Monday.  John was angry about this because he saw no sense in doing this treatment and was questioning the validity of it.  The office assistant I talked to today (before I talked to the doctor's asst) was like "Oh, no one talked to you about doing the 2 treatments in one day?"  For crying out loud, NO.  No one apparently tells us anything.   

So, I put a call back into the office explaining that John is expecting to meet with the Oncologist and/or her assistant first thing in the morning upon drop off, or when he goes to pick him up for the day, to discuss all of our concerns and our complaints, especially where misinformation and lack of communication are concerned.

This is such a scary thing for us, not to mention a very expensive one, and to not have them keep us fully aware at all times and be readily available to talk, is definitely unacceptable.  I don't doubt they are giving Oakley very good care, but it's just they are absolutely terrible about staying in constant contact and I feel like we are being mislead to try and go through the most expensive treatment as possible.  I do remember the assistant telling me that chemotherapy probably wasn't necessary since they didn't find anything in the lymphnode, but I am surprised they didn't push that on is as well. 

I really hope they are not trying to make us go through unnecessary and expensive treatment because this is a teaching hospital.  I bet they like to do useless treatment and tests on animals in order for their students to get some experience.  I hate to be cynical, but I can't help but think that way.  We'll see what happens after my husband talks to them.  I told him he needs to do that, as they can easily take advantage of me by playing on my emotions, and no doubt will encourage me to see the necessity of everything they are doing.

Anyway, that is my rant for today.  My boy is doing good, but he is pooped out and is totally passed out under my computer desk.  He needs the rest though - 3 more days til the weekend!  On a positive note, Susan (the office asst gal) claims that Oakley is apparently acting happy to be there and playing with the workers, and other dogs.  So, I guess that's good unless they are just telling me that to make me feel better - who knows at this point.

Here is a cute pic of Oakley from this afternoon:

 

His horizontal markings are getting more pronounced - I guess this is where he is starting to lose his hair or something.  I'm wondering what kind of side effects will occur with him getting his lymph node treated.  I also need to ask that.  I hope that his throat doesn't get sore and painful...another question to try and find out.  I was able to save some money by getting my regular vet to fill his Piroxicam prescription at Target though - only $15 versus the $40 it would have cost me at the U.  How do vets get away with these outrageous costs, anyway?!

Okay, now I'm done with my rant.  :)

Day 4 Update and Saturday's Update

So, I did not get around to updating last night.  Overall, Oakley was doing really well - a little whiny, but much better than the night before.  He did much better riding in the car on the way home.  I hope he continues to get calmer and calmer, because it is super stressful driving with him in the car.  He justs so whiny, barky and anxious.  John, myself, Oakley and Maya all went on a nice long walk Friday night, and he was much more energetic and did really well. He is still eating really well, too.

This was the 2nd day in a row that the U did not call us when Oakley was ready to picked up.  My husband was home today and could of have picked him up any time in the afternoon.  As it was, since I didn't get a call, I ended up getting him at 5:30, on my way home from work.  I left the Oncology department a message that I was not happy about the lack of communication and that we want to be able to pick him up as soon as possible, because I want him to be there as little as possible.

Today (Saturday) he has been doing great.  No longer whiny like he normally is after treatment.  The time off is definitely having a positive effect on him; seems relaxed and much happier.  He's my little shadow though.  He follows me everywhere.  John said that we could get him a nice bed - one of those thick mattress type dog beds and set it up right next to me in our bedroom.  Oakley loves being able to sleep in our room with us now and I just love having him next to me.

Here are some pics.  This one is from Friday night - with Maya included:

They took out his catheter on Friday.  You can see on his leg there it's shaved and looks kind of bruised.  It must kind of be itchy or something, because I caught him licking it quite a bit Friday night and had to make him stop.  I guess they take it out for the weekend and put back in Monday morning.

Here is a picture from today:

Such a cutie!  :)  He was waiting for me to give him his Sam's Yam Sweet Potato treat.  If you've never given one of these to your dog, find a bag.  They will go nuts for them!  They are on the expensive side though...you have to either order them online or at one of those smaller pet stores, not like PetSmart or Petco.  We get our food and treats from Pet Junction in Shoreview.

Well, until tomorrow!  Goodnight!

Day 3 Update

Oakley is pretty tired today.  I think perhaps that he didn't get his treatment until later in the day.  He seemed like he just sort of woke up from anesthesia or something when I saw him after work.  John came home from his business trip and was able to pick Oakley up on his way home from the airport.  They said everything went great again. 

He was very hungry and very thirsty, so at least he has his appetite and he wanted seconds.  I just can't wait for the weekend so he'll have 2 days of rest.  He really needs it - we all do!  I don't think we'll be going for our evening walk tonight.  Even though I know he would go, I just think he needs to relax tonight.

Honestly, I just can't imagine that even when we are done with this week we'll still have 3 more weeks to go!!  I just keep reminding myself that if we can get through this treatment process, and he starts to heal, he will hopefully get back to his regular self, because he really isn't right now.  But, we are giving him lots of love and affection and I hope he's comforted a little bit.

Here is today's picture.  It is a great one!! :)

He actually looks fairly happy and upbeat in this picture, but unfortunately his demeanor is anything but. As it is right now, he's kind of lost that twinkle in his eyes.  I know he's just not feeling himself or very well, and I really think right now it is due to the fact he has to be at the hospital all day long and because of the daily anesthesia he receives.

One more day and then we can all take a little break...at least until Monday.

Good night!!

Day 2 - Update 2

Picked Oakley up this afternoon.  He was a bit calmer, but once he saw me he was ready to run for the door!  He is pretty whiny tonight and kind of agitated at times.  I am unsure if he is just sort of tired, or if he is in any sort of discomfort.  He did eat dinner tonight and is taking snacks, so that is good.  I just took him and Maya out for a walk and he was unusually calm, not pulling me the first half of the walk trying to smell everything, so that is kind of concerning to me.  Maya, who seems to take all her cues from Oakley on how to behave, was also very calm during the walk.  I'm not sure if Oakley is just not feeling very well, or if the warm and humid evening is sort of playing a role in his behavior.  I think he is just ready for bed at this point. 

Here is today's picture:

Obviously, no changes or burns or anything like that, but then it's only Day 2.  I think perhaps he misses John a bit.   He is out of town for work, but will be back tomorrow.  Sometimes Oakley gets that way when John is not around.  I am really anxious and a bit scared on how this is all going to unfold because I have no idea what to expect.

I can't wait for the weekend so Oakley can have a bit of a rest.  All I hope for is that he gets into a routine and starts to calm down a bit.  I know he won't be the happiest dog in the next month or two, but I hope these 2 months of treatment will give us and him many, many more happy months together.

Day 2 - Update 1

I just got off the phone with Susan in Oncology.  Oakley is ready to be picked up, but unfortunately, I can't leave work until closer to 5:00 and I'm bummed, because I just want to scoop him up and give him a big, giant hug!  It was really heartbreaking leaving him there this morning.  When the tech came to get him, I stood up and he looked at me with his huge brown eyes and this excited look in his eyes like, "Yay, we're going home!".  Then when he realized I was walking away, he started crying and whining and lunging for me, with this look of "Mom!  Don't leave me!!".  Of course, this is how it looked to me and being me I burst into tears.  God, and this is only Day 2!!

Anyway, I spoke to Susan about a couple of things.  First off, the doctor completely misquoted us the cost of the treatment.  I was told $5000-$6000.  Yesterday when I dropped him off, they gave me the estimate to sign and the low end of the estimate was $7380!  I couldn't believe it and felt mislead.  I mean, it's not like I wasn't going to follow through with it, but still.  I told Susan that the doctor originally told me that the anesthesia fees, bloodwork, etc, was all included in the $5000-$6000 price.  Unfortunately, Susan told me that is not the case and they have had problems with the doctors misquoting clients and not including these extra costs.  She also said that Oakley is getting radiation in 2 different sites, which is also extra, but I think she said we are only getting charge the extra node and not the additional separate 15 doses.  Apparently, we are getting an extreme discount on that since they are right there anyway. 

Again as far as his treatment, Susan confirmed that he is getting 20 doses on his upper nasal area and 15 doses over his right eye.  I found out that basically his entire eye is going to be included in the radiation field and there is nothing that can be done to avoid damaging it.  There is a possibility he could go blind, but the likely thing to happen is dry eye and/or cataracts.  I asked her if it was going to be painful for him and she said that it is not likely to bother him very much.  She also said that unfortunately for most dogs with nasal tumors, it's very common to have the eye be included in the radiation field.  That completely sucks.

She said that Oakley was doing really well and they were playing ball with him and that they all really enjoy having him.  I'm glad he's being a good boy and I hope that he stays upbeat through all of this as best as he can and that I can stay upbeat through all this.  I also hope that he learns to chill in the car on the way to and from the hospital.  He loves to hear the words "car ride", but once in there he is just a basket case.

Will update more this evening after I get him home and evaluated!!

Day 1

Oakley was dropped off at the U this morning at 7:00am.  Today is the first day of radiation therapy.  He had to be anethestized for a couple of hours today in order to get some additional radiographs done, and get some more blood work done and to take a biopsy of his lymph nodes (to confirm whether or not the cancer has spread).  I won't know those results for a few days; however, they are not anticpating finding anything abnormal - I pray that is the case.

I waited all day for a call back to see when he would be ready to be picked up and how his treatment went.  I heard nothing and had to call myself at 4:30pm.  I was quite nervous and scared and wondering why I hadn't heard anything.  The receptionist explained that no news is good news and if it was bad I would have heard something right away, but she understood how I felt.  She found out that Oakley's treatment went "wonderfully" with no complications.  I picked him up around 5:30, and thankfully he looked pretty good, not dazed or anything from the anesthesia, but he definitely wanted to get the hell out of there.  They also had placed a catheter in his back left leg that he will be wearing during the course of the treatment so that they don't have to keep sticking him with needles.  They just wrap it up nice and tight in a bandage.  Thankfully, Oakley doesn't even realize it's there or doesn't care, I guess.

Oakley came home and ate his dinner - kibble and a little roast chicken and for dessert had a Sam's Yam's sweet potato chew.  He just loves those!  :)  Then we (Oakley, Maya, and myself) went for a nice evening walk around the neighborhood. 

Picture of Oakley on Day 1 - after treatment at home:

There are some weird marks on his face, but other than that, looks as handsome as ever!  I am really scared as to what is to come, but I know that this might help others who are thinking of going this route and not sure what to expect.  I plan on taking at least one picture of him every day to post to see the progression and what this therapy could do to him.  I'm guessing it won't be pretty in the near future, but I hope some find it helpful.

Time for bed - we need to get our rest, especially Oakley.  I think that he is going to get it real quick that the morning car ride is something he is NOT going to want to do...

Please keep Oakley in your thoughts and prayers!! 

Introduction - The Dreaded Diagnosis

The symptoms appeared in February '09.  Oakley started to get a bit sneezy and would start these mild "snuffing" episodes, which I describe as him trying to snort something out of his snout.  I didn't think anything of it, really.  He was scheduled to visit the vet for some blood work in anticipation for an upcoming dental visit.  The results came back with just a tiny elevated white blood cell count - an 18.  Apparently, 15 is within normal range.  At the time, the vet wasn't very worried - Oakley is a very anxious dog and apparently anxiety can increase WBCs.  I decided to hold off on the dental work and get him re-checked a few months later.

Over the next several months his nasal symptoms started to increase and he was having these "snuffing" fits almost every day for brief periods of time.  I honestly thought it might be allergies, so I continued to postpone getting him re-checked.  However, by July I decided I needed to get him in because he really needed his dental work completed and I was starting to get a little worried about what was causing his "sniffing" fits.   Unfortunately, after re-checking his bloodwork, his WBCs were through the roof at 27, clearly indicating there was a problem somewhere.  He was not acting sick, nor did he look sick, and he was his same usual energetic self.  However, I had a feeling it was related to his nasal symptoms.

The next set of procedures was to get a more detailed look at his blood and to get some xrays.  The vet was not going to originally take any shots of his nasal cavity or skull as she thought the nasal symptoms were a coincidence, but I said I wanted them and okay'ed him being sedated to complete the x-rays.  When I came to pick him up, the doctor explained to me that his lungs and chest area looked good but didn't say much about his nasal cavity, just that the radiologist at the U would be able to better conclude if there was an issue.  I knew she knew something and I asked her if it was cancer, but she just would not give me a straight answer.  The bloodwork was also being done elsewhere and results would take a couple of days. 

The results of the additional bloodwork again indicated and even higher WBC, just 1 week since the last check, and it was shown that he was creating "bands" or what I guess are called immature white blood cells.  Apparently, his body needed them as fast as possible they were not fully developing.  As far as he results of the xrays, the radiologist indicated that there was something that looked to be a soft tissue mass.  My regular vet however was just avoiding saying it was cancer and said further testing needed be completed.  She said it could be fungal, but I knew it wasn't.  She then got us scheduled at the U of M for a CT scan and rhinoscopy for the next week.  Needless to say, all tests concluded that he did indeed have a fleshy mass growing in his upper right nasal cavity and surrounding his right eye, in the sinus cavity (but thankfully not in the eye socket itself).  Then the worst news a few days later - the biopsy results confirmed that the mass was malignant, specifically, nasal adenocarcinoma.

My husband and I were shocked and heartbroken and I guess I was just basically in denial because from all appearances Oakley looked like a healthy, normal dog.  Although he is getting older, he is only 8!!  The doctor at the U who did the rhinoscopy told me that there were a few options available to us:  Radiation, surgery and/or a drug called Piroxicam, an non-steroid, anti-inflammatory that apparently helps block an enzyme the tumor uses to grow.  It doesn't cure it, but does slow it down and helps keep symptoms under control.  He told me if it was his dog that he would just stick with the Piroxicam because radiation therapy was quite expensive and then proceeded to give Oakley about a 6-9 month survival time.  I just couldn't believe it and couldn't accept it.  Not my Oakley!  He explained how the tumor could grow outwards, deforming his face and maybe make his eye bulge out.  He told us how it could grow down into his throat making it so he couldn't eat very well, and could cause him to have difficulty breathing and that he could start suffering from bad nose bleeds.  Then he said if we had further questions about possible treatment plans, we should contact the Oncology department and then wished us good luck.  I don't know, it kind of pissed me off the way he sort of brushed us off, because I felt as though I was just punched in the gut hearing what this horrible disease was going to do to my beautiful and sweet boy.

We proceeded with visiting the oncologist in the hopes of doing something for Oakley that would prolong his life and/or relieve his symptoms and to try and get all of our questions answered.  The visit gave us our first glimmer of hope.  The Oncologist said that since Oakley was overall a very healthy dog and that the cancer was confined, he was a good candidate for radiation therapy.  I am hoping she was sincere and not just wanting us to go that route to use him as a "lab rat" so to speak.  I did ask her if it was her dog what would she do.  She told me that if money was not an object she would proceed with radiation therapy, and her assistant also said the same.  I don't think they were being insincere; they seemed a lot more caring than the first doctor and hopeful that we would have positive results, and they really did fall in love with Oakley on the spot.  We decided that we wanted to try the "curative intent" radiation therapy, or "definitive" radiation therapy route; I've seen both terms used interchangably on my documentation.  It's a very intense and grueling schedule, but the goal is to sterilize as many cancer cells as possible and control the tumor long term, and there is a possibility of temporary remission.  He will be receiving 20 treatments over the course of 4 weeks.  It appears that most dogs handle the treatment pretty well (the U handles about 2-8 patients per day!) and that is what I'm hoping for with Oakley.  There are going to be side effects; redness, possible skin problems like erythema, ulcerations, mild or persistent nasal discharge, perhaps sores or burns in his mouth, and possible damage to his eye (as a portion of it could be in the path of the radiation).  These symptoms apparently start to appear after 2 weeks into treatment, but all should heal (except for maybe the eye damage).  I am praying that his side effects are mild or just on the verge of moderate.  There are worst side effects, but I don't want to mention them, and fortunately, the chances are very small of having major complications.  We also have Oakley on Piroxicam, which thankfully has been doing wonders in controlling his "snuffing" fits - he rarely has them at all anymore.  I hope the combination of both therapies will give us a fighting chance in beating back this cancer.  Thankfully, the tumor itself is contained within the nasal cavity and has not infiltrated other areas, and his symptoms seemed mild to other accounts that I have read, so I am hoping that we caught this early enough that this treatment can make a difference and help prolong his life.     

I think I cried for 2 weeks straight after finding out and it hasn't been any easier for my husband.  I just can't sit back and let this disease win right off the bat without a good fight.  Oakley is worth fighting for and I love him so much.  However, the last thing I want to do is make this more difficult for him or make him endure more pain and suffering.  If I feel that this treatment is putting too much stress on him and causing him too much discomfort, I will make the decision to stop it and then just try and treat the cancer as best I can to make him as comfortable as possible and as happy as possible up until the very end.

Honestly, I still cannot believe this...but unfortunately it is our reality right now.